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Interview Script

Use this to extract decision rules for soul.md.

Why behavioral

A hand-built twin once scored below a generic-agent baseline because the author wrote down who he wanted to be. His spec said he escalated priority conflicts; in reality, he decided. It said he would never ship unverified work; in reality, he cut scope and held the date. Rewriting the rules from observed behavior moved the twin from 60% to 87%.

So do not ask, "What do you value?" Ask, "What did you actually do last time?"

Behavioral questions

  1. Think of the last time two important people needed you at once. What did you actually do first?
  2. When did you last miss or renegotiate a commitment? What did you say, and to whom?
  3. Tell me about the last time you shipped something imperfect. What did you cut, keep, or flag?
  4. When did you last push back on a senior person? What words did you use?
  5. When did you last protect a peer's work from churn? What action did you take?
  6. Think of the last surprise request that landed late in the day. Did you absorb it, defer it, delegate it, or decline it?
  7. When did your calendar last contradict your stated priorities? What won?
  8. Tell me about the last decision you made without escalating. Why did you decide instead of asking?
  9. When did you last escalate? What made that situation different?
  10. What was the last message you rewrote three times before sending? What were you trying not to say?
  11. When did you last choose speed over completeness? What risk did you accept?
  12. When did you last choose completeness over speed? What deadline or relationship paid the cost?
  13. Tell me about the last meeting you skipped, shortened, or protected. What did that reveal?
  14. When did you last disappoint someone intentionally? Why was that the least-bad option?
  15. What is the last piece of feedback you ignored? What did you do instead?

Interviewer move

If the answer starts with "I usually" or "I value," interrupt kindly: "Great. What happened the last time?"

Forced-choice dilemmas

Have participants answer these at the start and seal their answers. At the end, the twin answers cold. Compare for correction, not points.

#DilemmaChoicesProbes
1A deck ships Friday. Thursday afternoon you find an unverified claim on slide 12.A) Ship it and flag verbally B) Cut the slide and ship on time C) Slip the date D) EscalateQuality bar, date discipline, escalation rule
2Your manager asks for a quick narrative by EOD. You promised a peer a review by EOD.A) Do manager first B) Do peer first C) Split both shallowly D) Renegotiate one commitmentStakeholder table, promise handling
3An exec asks for a meeting during your only focus block this week.A) Accept B) Offer async input C) Ask for delegate coverage D) Decline with contextCapacity, seniority pressure, boundaries
4A customer-facing email is accurate but sounds cold. It is due in 20 minutes.A) Send as is B) Rewrite for tone C) Ask someone to review D) DelayVoice bar, risk tolerance, audience handling
5A teammate proposes an approach you think will fail, but the team is tired.A) Object now B) Let it run C) Ask one diagnostic question D) Take it offlineCandor, team energy, conflict style
6You have data that weakens your preferred recommendation.A) Include it prominently B) Mention it in appendix C) Hold it for Q&A D) Change recommendationEvidence handling, integrity boundary
7Two teams disagree and both expect you to choose today.A) Decide B) Escalate C) Facilitate one more discussion D) DeferArbiter behavior, escalation threshold
8Your calendar is over capacity and a non-urgent meeting has no agenda.A) Attend B) Decline C) Ask for agenda D) Send async notesCapacity, meeting boundaries
9A draft from AI is 80% right and 20% not your voice.A) Rewrite fully B) Patch the worst parts C) Send with light edits D) Start over manuallyVoice standards, efficiency threshold
10A peer asks for confidential context you are not sure you can share.A) Share high level B) Decline C) Ask owner first D) Redirect to sourceBoundaries, trust, confidentiality
11You discover a dependency risk that might not materialize.A) Raise now B) Monitor quietly C) Add a caveat D) Build a fallbackRisk signaling, ambiguity tolerance
12A project can hit the date only if scope shrinks.A) Cut scope B) Slip date C) Add people D) Escalate tradeoffPriority stack, scope/date tiebreaker
13A broad update could be short and clear or nuanced and long.A) Short B) Nuanced C) Two-layer summary D) Ask audience preferenceCommunication style, audience model
14You get feedback that is partly wrong but politically important.A) Accept it B) Push back C) Incorporate the useful part D) Ask a third partyFeedback handling, stakeholder sensitivity
15Your twin recommends something that sounds unlike you but is logically defensible.A) Keep it B) Patch voice C) Patch decision rule D) Add a boundaryTest behavior, correction strategy